Confidence

Don’t always listen to others, jeez!

If you are in a place like me (happy me!) you are surrounded by wonderful people. That circle can be very big, or very small, but if you have approximately 5 people in your life you can thoroughly trust, you are a lucky person. Parents count. Siblings count. Best friends who became like siblings count. I do doubt that it…

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Confidence

What your gut tells you to do

In my last blog post, concerning focusing strategies and the like, I was also talking about the sheerly uncountable number of opportunities we, as people, are faced with in life. Easier questions involve our sex lifes and sexual identity, our working area, our study field. While these will already have a huge influence on who-you-are and what-your-life-will-become, most people have…

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3 quickies, Balance

3 quick focussing habits

Haven’t we all been there? The paper is due tomorrow, the unanswered emails should long have been attended to, and there is still the report for your boss waiting on your table. And your mind (as well as motivation) is having margarita shots with the pool boy on a beach in Acapulco. I am grateful for all the possibilities life brings…

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Balance

You can’t help everyone

Recently I came to a, for me, shocking conclusion: Some people seem to want to be miserable. That sounds dramatic, and I know it. But how else do you explain people who just stubbornly refuse to change one single, helpful thing in their behavior? I am in the great position that I normally surround myself with people who strive towards self-improvement. This…

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Balance

Doing what’s necessary (not always right)

When I started blogging, about a year ago, I was sure I’d be able to: move to a new city finish my studies find new work improve my fitness and health routines … and at the same time be able to keep up posting 3 ideas each week. I was wrong. But as it is usual for mistakes, there’s a…

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Randoms

The Sixth Tendency

The attentive reader will have noticed that in this last article on the spring/summer tendencies, 5 of the most important ideas regarding this upcoming season were included. However, if you do not rely only on my insight on this topic, but are active yourself in pursuing hot trends and fashionable ideas, you will have realized that one of the most…

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Randoms

Fashion Love Spring/Summer 2018-2: Tendencies!

Hey beauties, ready to be backed up with some more news regarding that wonderful upcoming season? Well, I definitely am! You know, it’s true, watching all those fashion shows, reading numerous articles on the “Hot and Not” section and diving deeper into the topic of trends, can leave one quite confused. But while some fashionistas don’t seem to be too…

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Confidence, Feminism

The Importance of March 8th

The most common response to a picture or post on the woman’s day is mostly “Why isn’t there a day for men?”. “Why isn’t there a day for children”?. It was intended as a joke, but there is a lot of truth in this answer – because every other day is. But this day is not one of these occasions…

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Randoms

Fashion Love Spring/Summer 2018-1: Colours!

What better way to start talking about the upcoming season than with the colours which are considered the most chic, the most “in”! While all the other ideas might need some more thought or smartness to be incorporated, colours, at least one of those who I will present in just a second, are easily found and can be used not…

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Randoms

Fashion Love Spring/Summer 2018: The Series

It is march and therefore, finally, the more colourful, somewhat more happy season fo the year, spring, starts! While I was anxious for weeks to finally be able to share all the wonderful new trends this new season will bring for us with you, I am now conscious that all of it in one post is probably kind of an…

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